I really don’t think it’s a lot to ask for aromantic asexuals to be included in discussions as more than an afterthought.
I don’t think it’s a lot to ask people to stop saying “most” asexuals want romance (or children) as if aromantic asexual people are such a small minority they only deserve an afterthought.
I don’t think it’s a lot to ask for people to stop implying that a life without romance or children is sad or worthy of pity.